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		<title>Beware Large Homophobes, They Will Crush You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Jan 2010 21:44:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the summer, I had one of those &#8220;kind of&#8221; relationships with someone of the same sex, who I thought was gay. We didn&#8217;t really go much past kissing, but we had an emotional connection and it seemed like we might have gone somewhere else&#8230; if you know what I mean. All of a sudden [...]]]></description>
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		<title>God made me gay&#8230;by being gay.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 20:03:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I often hear anti-gay commentators and politicians refer to the &#8220;Gay Lifestyle&#8221; or &#8220;Alternate Lifestyle&#8221;. Also there is often a strong implication that people who &#8220;choose&#8221; this &#8220;lifestyle&#8221; try to indoctrinate others. This is often given as a reason why gays can&#8217;t be teachers. Shouldn&#8217;t there be a strong effort to convince people that homosexuals [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I kissed a boy, won&#8217;t change the world&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 18:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey,
I&#8217;m 17 years old, and have refereed to myself as bi-sexual since I was about 13. Recently though, I kind of felt that being gay fit better. I don&#8217;t call myself lesbian for the same reason I don&#8217;t call myself bi &#8211; I don&#8217;t like the connotations. I prefer &#8220;gay woman&#8221;.

However, despite the fact that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Charlie of the LGBTA&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 17:52:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is the &#8220;Q&#8221; in LGBTQ?
Good question! It means questioning. By writing you are now Q. Welcome to the club. I also, as is reflected in this post title, often accidentally say LGBTA because I live in Boston and I ride on the MBTA. There is no Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual Transit Authority though—did he ever [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Hey Maine. C&#8217;mon.</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 18:31:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So what is this same-sex marriage all about anyway? Why do the gays want to get married? Will same-sex marriage ruin straight marriage for everyone else?

Tomorrow Maine will vote on Question 1. Voters will decide whether to overturn the law which approves same-sex marriage. So here we stand. We the people who fail to learn [...]]]></description>
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		<title>There&#8217;s an app for that.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:24:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is a tea dance?
Okay, I admit it, I asked this question. A friend of mine asked me if I wanted to go with him to a bear themed tea dance at a local bar at which point I asked what that was. Not the bear part, I know about that. They have their own [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Do you need a baby-daddy?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 18:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When you want a baby, which one of us will you choose? You do want kids right?
Ah, the biological time bomb that is lying wait in every woman&#8217;s womb. Causing the desperate need for a baby. To make a baby, hold babies, coo at babies, envy the babies strapped to the front of others, to [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ew!!! Lesbians! Shriek, shriek, shriek.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Sep 2009 17:45:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do gay men really dislike lesbians?
I keep hearing that this is true. Actually, last night I was informed that gay men don&#8217;t like lesbians because they have no style. I was hurt. I had product in my hair. What more do you want?
To determine the validity of the statement I decided to search beyond the [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I would like access to your pants for reciprocal fun.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do lesbians say that they want to get into each other&#8217;s pants and do one-night-stands work the same way as with straight people or is it different because lesbian sex is more about give and take rather than using each other&#8217;s junk to get off?
Okay, I paraphrased this question and my apologies to the questioner [...]]]></description>
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		<title>That&#8217;s What Sie Said.</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Aug 2009 19:10:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As promised in an earlier post&#8230;
Now it&#8217;s time for Fun with Gender Neutral Pronouns!!
I am really tolerant, trust me, and yet for some reason I have a hard time incorporating gender neutral pronouns into my language. I seldom take the politically correct high road and ask the question of a new group of people, &#8220;which [...]]]></description>
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